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So, you’re expecting a baby, but aren’t sure how to throw a fun and creative, gender-neutral baby shower? Worry not! This blog is the key to finding gender-neutral baby shower themes. You won’t be left in despair. These themes can be implemented at home or in an event space rented locally without needing a degree. Grab a snack and let’s get started with these wonderful ideas that will have your guests saying, “Wow! This is much cooler than my previous birthday party!”
Royal Victorian Elegance with a Modern Twist
The Royal Victorian Elegance theme is perfect if you’ve ever secretly wished for high tea but can’t be bothered to find a butler. Soft pastel colors of blue and pink mingling harmoniously with gold accents, gives the perfect gender neutral theme
This theme is all about mixing the old with the new, so don’t stress about making everything historically accurate. It’s not a history exam; it’s a celebration! Just think elegant, add a splash of humor, and you’re golden (literally, with all those gold accents). Plus, you get to act posh for a day, which is always a win in my book.
Tips to achieve this theme
- Decor: Hit up your local thrift store or even raid Grandma’s attic for lace tablecloths and vintage china. You’re not looking for perfection—quirky pieces with some gold accents just add to the charm. Toss in some faux flowers form the dollar store and bunch them together for a table centerpecice or place them in clear jars on the table and you’ve got yourself a royal-worthy setup.
- Mason jars are your new best friends. Fill them with fairy lights or wildflowers for a table piece that screams “Look, I’m totally nailing this!” Also, grab a few frames and paint them gold. Stick in some adorable baby quotes or Victorian art prints for an extra touch of sophistication.
- Activities: Set up a cookie-making station. Guests can go wild with sparkles, glitter, and icing. Who doesn’t like cookies and playing around with making decor?
- Games: Bring a royal twist to the classic “Guess the Baby Food” game. Have guests taste-test baby food flavors while pretending they’re on a gourmet tour. Trust me, it’s a hoot watching your friends try to keep a straight face while eating puréed peas.
For an extra dash of fun, consider incorporating a themed dress code. Encourage guests to don their best vintage-inspired attire or pastel-hued outfits to complement the elegant setting. A touch of pearls can elevate the ambiance and make for some unforgettable photos. You might even hand out small props like monocles or lace gloves at the entrance for guests to really get into the spirit of the occasion.
Whimsical Woodland Magic
We’re going to an enchanted forrest! Grab your fairy wings, and sprinkle some magic. Whimsical Woodland is like entering a fairytale, with its soft greens and earthy browns. It also features an army of cute critters.
Before you stress out about creating a perfect forest atmosphere, keep in mind that it’s about the small touches. Nobody expects you to create a forest right in your own backyard. It will feel magical with a few creative DIYs and well-placed objects. You’ll also get the “oohs and ahhs”, without having to worry about an elaborate set-up.
Tips to achieve this theme:
- Decor: Hang paper lanterns in the shape of leaves or flowers on your ceiling (or from trees outside if it’s warm enough). These plush animals, such as foxes and deer, make wonderful centerpieces. These can be found at any toy shop or on Amazon. You can decorate your table with a few wood slices or logs.
- Let’s now talk about backdrops: Your new best friend is a faux greenery wall. You can grab some fake plants at your local craft shop, arrange them onto a large sheet of plywood or cardboard, and glue it down. It’s much easier than you think and a lot more fun than assembling IKEA furnishings. You’ll be able to create an Insta-worthy space that will get your guests excited about doing a photoshoot.
- Activities: Create a nature scavenger-hunt to entertain the guests. Make a list with items such as pinecones and acorns for guests to find. This is like Pokemon Go but without the danger of walking into a branch. Another great idea? Make a fairy making house station. Set out some twigs and leaves and let your guests discover their inner forest architect. Who knew that creating tiny houses could be therapeutic?
Vintage Country Charm – Yeehaw, But Make It Chic
.We’re about bring the rustic charms of the country to your backyard or living room. This theme is all about gingham, mason-jars, and cozy vibes. Let’s get started!
Tips for achieving this theme:
- Decor: all you need are burlap runners on the table, mason jars with wildflowers and a touch gingham to bring everything together. Visit your local Hobby Lobby or craft store to find some affordable and cute decor. Don’t forget about the vintage milk jugs and lanterns that you have probably stashed away in your attic. They give off a country feel without much effort.
- DIY Projects: Let’s be crafty! Create a photobooth background using hay bales. You can find these at garden centers and farmers’ markets. Vintage props such as old cowboy hats and bandanas are also great. Wildflower crowns, of course, are a must. They’re easy and, let’s face it, who doesn’t like to feel like a flower girl for a day?
- Activities: If you want to have a pie eating contest, but keep it classy or less messy (or both), consider a pie tasting instead. You can also ask local bakeries to provide a variety of pies, and then let your guests guess what flavors they are. You could also host a mini-square dance session. You may be having a baby shower but that doesn’t mean you can’t have a mocktail and do-sido.
Let’s face it, this theme is about a relaxed charm with a touch of elegance. Don’t worry about making everything perfect. Rustic means that you can get by with a few imperfections. It’s part of the charm. It’s also a great excuse to wear cowboy booties without looking like you are trying too hard. Channel your inner country star and your guests will be tipping hats in no time.
African Safari Adventure in Your Own Backyard
Ready to unleash your wild side? Let’s get this baby shower roaring with an African Safari theme that’s as thrilling as a National Geographic special—minus the danger of actual wild animals. Think bold colors, animal prints, and a vibe that screams “Hakuna Matata!”
Tips to achieve this theme:
Decor: First off, you’ll want to create a balloon arch that looks like it was plucked right out of the Serengeti. Use earthy tones like gold, brown, and green to set the scene. You can easily grab a balloon kit from Amazon or your local party store. And don’t forget the safari leaves—some faux greenery will turn your backyard into a mini jungle. String them up wherever you can; trust me, no one’s judging your hot-glue gun skills here.
Games: Now, let’s talk entertainment. How about a game of “Wildlife Trivia”? Prepare some fun and challenging questions related to safari animals and let the competitive spirits run wild. The winner gets a stuffed animal, because who wouldn’t want a plush giraffe as a trophy?
Feeling a bit more adventurous? Set up a mini obstacle course. Think stepping stones (or hula hoops) to jump through, plush animals to dodge, and a faux river (blue tarp anyone?) to cross. It’s like Survivor, but with way fewer mosquitoes and more baby shower guests.
Now that we’re on the topic of games, let’s not forget the classic “Guess the Animal Sound.” Download a variety of animal noises and play them for your guests. Whoever guesses the most sounds correctly gets to be crowned the Safari King or Queen. Bonus: this game is hilarious, especially after a few mocktails.
And speaking of mocktails, why not create a “Safari Sips” station? Think refreshing drinks with tropical fruit garnishes. Pineapple juice, coconut water, and a splash of soda can go a long way. And for those who prefer something stronger, feel free to add a little rum—just label it clearly so no one accidentally ends up on a real safari adventure in their own backyard.
The key to nailing this theme is to embrace the wild and whimsical. You don’t need a five-star jungle resort to make it work; just a bit of creativity and a willingness to go with the flow. So grab those animal prints, inflate those balloons, and get ready to roar your way through a safari baby shower that’ll be the talk of the savanna (or at least your neighborhood).
Carnaval Extravaganza – Because Life Is a Party
Ready to throw confetti and shake your tail feather? A Carnaval Extravaganza is where vibrant colors meet festive energy, perfect for those who think life should be a party even when you’re expecting a baby.
Tips to achieve this theme:
Decor: Think bold, bright, and beautiful! Hit up your local party store or browse online for decorations that scream fiesta. You’ll need a riot of colors: think hot pinks, electric blues, and sunshine yellows. Streamers, balloons, and table settings should look like a rainbow threw up on them—in the best way possible, of course. Drape your space with colorful fabrics, and for an extra flair, toss in some sequined table runners. Your goal is to create a space so dazzling, it would make even the most somber guest want to dance.
Alright, crafters, this is your moment. Set up a mask-making station with feathers, beads, and glitter. Guests can channel their inner divas and create their own masterpieces. Just be prepared for some serious mask envy. For an extra touch, create a few DIY carnival banners. Cut triangles from colorful paper, string them together, and voilà—you’ve got instant carnaval flair.
Activities: Nothing says Carnaval like a dance-off! Crank up some upbeat tunes and let your guests show off their best moves. Award a prize for the best dancer—extra points if they can do the Macarena without looking like they’re in physical pain. If you want to keep the kids entertained (or the adults who still act like kids), set up a mini face-painting station. Grab some non-toxic face paints and let the guests transform into whatever colorful creatures they desire.
What’s a party without a piñata? Grab a brightly colored piñata, fill it with baby-themed goodies or candy, and let your guests take turns trying to break it open. There’s something hilariously primal about watching adults flail at a papier-mâché animal with a stick, especially when candy is involved. For a fun twist, you could also host a “Carnaval Costume Contest.” Encourage guests to come dressed in their most outrageous carnival-inspired outfits, and award prizes for the most creative, funniest, and best overall.
For drinks, a “Carnaval Mocktail” station is a must. Offer a variety of juices, sodas, and fruit garnishes so guests can mix and match their own festive concoctions. And for those who prefer their drinks with a bit more kick, set up a separate adult beverage station with some tropical cocktails. Just remember to clearly label which drinks are kid-friendly—you don’t want anyone’s toddler accidentally getting a taste of Mama’s margarita.
Now, I know what you’re thinking: “This sounds amazing but also like a lot of work.” Fear not! The key to pulling off a Carnaval Extravaganza is to embrace the chaos. It doesn’t have to be perfect—half the fun is in the madness. So grab your glue gun, throw on some salsa music, and get ready to party like it’s Rio in your very own backyard (or living room, no judgment).
This theme is all about joy, celebration, and color. So let loose, have fun, and make some memories that will last a lifetime. And who knows? Maybe you’ll start a trend, and every baby shower from here on out will need a carnival twist. Either way, you’ll have a blast, and isn’t that what a baby shower is all about?
